21 Fun Questions To Ask A New Date
Questions are the most amazing things that we can come up with when we want to learn about someone else.
Dale Carnegie in his mega-best-selling book “How to win friends and influence people” shares about the power of asking questions to show that we are interested in someone else.
Have you ever been to a party and you have been the one asking the questions and doing most of the listening? If you have you will probably agree that the other person thought that the conversation was quite interesting – funny that! You probably did less that twenty percent of the speaking but you got 100% of the credit!
If you’re a guy and ask a lady some great questions, you will often find yourself leaping to last-base, saving a lot of time and energy trying to build rapport with her. Asking questions and really listening to what a person says is one of the most naturally flattering things you can do with anyone.
If you’re a lady and want to stroke a guy’s ego and make him feel good, then just ask lots of questions and then listen to the answers. You will have the guy on a string from there on!
Despite the ego-stroking that can happen, if you ask and listen there is also a genuine side to the picture as well. Because the people who are genuinely interested in someone else and ask great questions are the people who are always popular and well liked. Faking interest is the worst thing you can do. And at the end of the day, if you are not a natural listener then put yourself to the test and practice. You will start to learn SO much about so many things and you will discover parts of people that are just SO interesting to learn about.
Here’s 21 questions to ask a guy or girl to get conversation rolling. They have been written from a female perspective, however just switch them around if you are a guy and want to use them. If nothing else it will get you thinking about your own questions – which are always better.
Here’s 21 questions to ask a guy or a girl to get you started
1. If you’re a waiter and one of your customers was rude, would you spill food accidentally on them or worst still spit in their soup?
2. What was your favourite Halloween dress up costume as a child and why?
3. If you were to choose five people to invite to dinner – real of fictional – who would you invite and why?
4. If you could suddenly become the invisible man, where would you go and what would you do?
5. If someone was to make a comedy movie about just one part of your life, which part would they script and what would be written?
6. What was your most favourite television character when you were a child? What did you like about them and why?
8. What do you regret not doing the most in your life?
8. What has been the abnormal experience in your whole entire life?
9. Have you ever gone on a date with someone who is so much taller or smaller than you, and if so how did you get on kissing?
10. How old were you when you had your first proper date? Did you get to kiss them and if so was it a French kiss?
11. What’s the worst lie you’ve ever told in your life? Where you caught out?
12. If you were suddenly turned into a woman for a day, how would you spend that day?
13. When you meet someone for the first time and you do not like them what would you normally do?
14. Which do you prefer the most in a woman – intelligence, a good body or good looks?
Time to get a little more personal!
15. Have you ever been caught with no clothes on in a public place – if so what were you doing?
16. What’s the difference between sex and making love and which do you prefer?
17. If you could suddenly change the age you lost your virginity, would you?
18. What turns you on sexual the most and why?
19. Have you ever been unfaithful to your partner and did they find out? If so, what happened?
20. Has anyone ever caught you masturbating? If they did what did you do and who was it?
21. Have you ever serial sex – with one person and then been with a different person somewhere else within the same day?
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